Just wondering… we are social being. We do not live for ourselves alone. We want somebody to share our pleasure and sorrow of life. They are called FRIENDS. A friend is a channel of love and affection. It grows after understanding and considerable interactions and sharing of feelings, where both understand each other, share each other’s agony freely and then an attachment grows. Love is also based on the same criteria of friendship where they do the commitments to each other. Love does not rise to surface suddenly from anywhere.
I believe that true love does not lie on beauty alone. It is something more. Love grows after knowing each other, sharing feelings, caring and mutual understanding. The prominent elements in love are confidence and trust between the two.
The reason behind all this philosophy is that “”M IN LOVE “” lolz ...
Yeah!! "To be in love is the best way to see the life at its BEST.....""
My most memorable and the happiest day has come in my life which is like a dream come true for me...
It’s unbelievable for me ‘too’ that I am engaged with the one with whom I had fallen in love for the first time in my life and who is bestum se bhi jyda my “ BEST FRIEND”…
Well!! This “too”- represents majority of my friends who knows me very well … All were shocked that Divu has fallen in love and she is going for a love marriage?? In my college time- nobody ever imagined I will be involved in luv shuv!!! Those were the days when I was totally against love marriages and never believed in such type of relationships…
I never had such a feeling for anyone which I have for him… “My heart beats in his heart and his in mines” hahahahaha… Isn’t it filmy?? Every tiny miny thing had started bothering me and my heart!!
I have loads of friends in my life but he has taken that special place which every gal must have set for in their life … I took lot of time to make myself realize that I have fallen in love. Maybe our common friends would have recognized that some daal is gulling btw us but I was like very rigid and stiff to my thought and decision that neither can I fall in love with anyone nor will I let myself do so…
To start with our love story- I joined HCL in Feb’07 and there I met with Varun... On the very first day only there was some attractiveness from both the sides but obviously not realized anything being unknown to each other. As a fresher, I was in my ego and so is he… so we hardly spoke with each other, saying just hi n hellos or finding the reason to talk else we’ll not … (so funny!!)
Since there was only 1 gal in hcl- gurneet so I used to share a lot with her. Fortunately Gurneet’s best pal was Varun and Arun and so we 4 became very gud friends. We had gr8 FUN – watched movie in our office hours (goli dekar boss ko :P), had Maggie @ mother dairy in Sector-19.. , freak out in gurgaon or masti @ our favorite Spice food court. But since arun and gurneet had a gud tuning with each other so varun left for me.. Slowly and gradually, I and varun became very gud and best friends and after gurneet and arun left hcl, then he was my ekmaatra sahara !!
We did lot of calls together (to be more precise – calls mean visiting customers) and he was the one who helped me out how to manage myself in sales profile. Being new to this city, he was like a guide for me :P who was always there whenever I required any help professionally or personally. In today’s date, wherever I am working, he plays a very important role behind it. As I struggled for my job a lot but he was the one who always motivated me and gave the best possible solution.
And so we became more than a friend. Mango people had started talking about us thinkin that something is wrong but I was very firm on my decision that he is just a very gud friend and nothing else. “Let people say whatever they want, I just damn care”. Since we both had a very good understanding so we never let people say anything in front of us. Our common friends knew that he liked me but due to my rigid behaviour, he never confess anything and always tried to control his feelings…
But his extreme love and care made me fall in love with him finallyyyyy…..
On 29th April’09, I got a mail from Varun in the morning which was a formal love letter… at that time I didn’t take it on a serious note and was surprised that y he confessed?? But late nite .. when we were chatting via msg- msg, our feelings came out suddenly and we both confessed. Oh God!! In the morning I realized and from then our love story BEGINSss…….
Finally this beginning ends with a good start and we both got engaged on 20th September’10 which is the most happiest and memorable day of my life…
I am really thankful to my Jee , Jeju ,her in laws and my GOD for all the help they gave to make this happened ..
